Are you feeling nervous because your parents have found some match and you are forced to make the decision over a cup of tea? Don’t worry we are presenting you some questions that can help you to decide whether you have found the right match or not. So don’t get nervous as asking what you want to ask ( but never dig into their past relationships). Because Robert Scuka, the executive director of the National Institute of Relationship Enhancement says;
“If you don’t deal with an issue before marriage, you deal with it while you’re married.”
Start your communication with some general questions as the person on the other end is also as nervous as you are. Better ask about hobbies and interests.
This will help you find out how compatible you both are.
Ask about their idea of marriage. Are they getting married just because they have to get married or they are getting married because they want to spend their beautiful life with someone special?
Ask what is that they can never adjust with. This will help you to know about their priorities and of course, what do they expect from you in that case.
Movies, music, and literature is another way to connect with each other. Ask about their interests and preference in it. Ask what kind of movies, music, and literature do they prefer.
Ask about their future plans in professional as well as personal life and are they putting efforts into it or having impractical plans. This will tell you how organized and managed they are.
How important is the religion? Or does they give more importance to being spiritual? If two people come from different religious backgrounds, is each going to pursue his or her own religious affiliation and respect each other’s religious beliefs?